How People Respond to Simulated Disclosures of Non-Physical Intimate Partner Violence

Abstract

Victim-survivors of intimate partner violence (IPV) often disclose their experiences to friends and family, yet little is known about disclosure-recipients’ responses to non-physical IPV. We analyzed transcribed verbal responses from 28 participants to a simulated disclosure of verbal and monitoring abuse from either a male or female victim. Thematic analysis identified three support types centered around identifying abuse, resolving the situation, and acknowledging the victim. Participants prioritized problem solving and showed greater concern for female victims but condemned the abuse regardless of gender. Findings suggest informal supporters may benefit from training to balance action-oriented responses with demonstrating emotional support.

Keywords

intimate partner violence non-physical abuse informal support disclosure

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