Summary:This review explores the international literature on therapeutic
work with sexually abused children. The emphasis is on the nature, extent and
outcomes of non-offending parental involvement in such work. The context is an
increasing recognition of the significant influence that non-offending parents may
have on their children’s recovery and, at the same time, the serious
impact on parents themselves of finding out about the sexual abuse of their
children, including the impact on their relationships with their children.
Findings:The article identifies a number of distinct approaches to therapy
that differ widely in the nature and extent of non-offending parental involvement.
The diversity of approach reflects the variety of underlying theoretical
orientation. The implications for children’s recovery are discussed.
Applications: Involving non-offending parents in therapeutic work with
their sexually abused children may be important in promoting successful outcomes. It
is argued that the perceived benefits of some of the approaches under review may be
used flexibly, and in combination, to make significant advances in practice.
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