Fertility-Related Problems and Ways of Coping of Couples With Primary Infertility in Urban India

Design

This was a cross-sectional comparative study and followed a purposive sampling method.

Sample

Thirty couples (60 participants) with primary infertility with 20 to 35 years of age and taking treatment at private infertility clinic in a metro city in India for male factor, female factor, and unexplained factor infertility. Male factor infertility group consisted of males with low sperm count, poor sperm functioning, ejaculatory disturbances, and structural abnormalities of the reproductive system. Female factor infertility group consisted of females with polycystic ovarian syndrome, diminished ovarian reserve, abnormalities in the uterus, and blocked fallopian tubes. Unexplained factor infertility group consisted of couples where the cause of infertility was unknown and could not be diagnosed with existing diagnostic tests. Couples who were staying together at least for 3 years were selected. Those couples were not incorporated who had past history of failed in vitro fertilization (IVF) treatment, history of any physical disability, other major physical illness, history of substance abuse, psychosis, or significant head trauma. If both the members of the couple (husband and wife) had a known cause for infertility, they were also excluded. Couples between 25 and 40 years, without history of IVF or other mode of treatment and no history of psychoses or substance abuse, were taken. Duration of infertility was taken between 5 and 7 years.

Measures

The following tools were used:

Mini International Neuropsychiatric Interview ⁹

The Mini International Neuropsychiatric Interview (MINI) was designed as a brief structured interview for the major Axis I psychiatric disorders in DSM-IV and ICD-10. It is a short, structured psychiatric interview which is widely used for psychiatric evaluation and outcome tracking in clinical psychopharmacology trials and epidemiological studies. It has high reliability and validity of 0.70.

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Sample Distribution

Procedure

Informed consent was taken and Axis I disorders were ruled out (substance abuse, psychosis, mood, and anxiety disorders), following which the tools were individually administered in the following order: socio-demographic data sheet, semi-structured clinical data sheet, MINI International Neuropsychiatric Interview, Fertility Problem Inventory, and Ways of Coping Questionnaire.

Patients were recruited from BIRTH Infertility Clinic in Kolkata, India. All the patients were diagnosed by a gynecologist and an infertility specialist. All patients recruited had participated in the study. Some couples were apprehensive to give data as they feared loss of privacy. They were assured of the confidentiality and eventually convinced.

Ethics approval was obtained from the research and ethics committees at The Institute of Psychiatry and at The Institute of Post-Graduate Medical Education and Research in June 2015. The study period was between January 2016 and February 2017.

Gender-Based Differences in Infertility

As compared to the other groups, in the current study, male factor group has the greatest social concern and females have greater social concerns than men. This dimension refers to the individual’s sensitivity to comments, reminders of infertility, feelings of social isolation, and alienation from family or peers. The reactions of the woman to her partner’s infertility can range from compassion, to shame, to deep resentment. ¹² Males acknowledge it is their problem irrespective of the fact whether they declare socially. They had no inhibitions to acknowledge their shortcoming. On the contrary, some women in the study reported that they would cover up for their husbands in their social circle and take the blame on themselves. She may have a need to protect him. Because the emphasis for pregnancy is on women in our society, many women seem more comfortable with outwardly taking responsibility for the couple’s infertility in front of families and friends.

Loss of Masculinity

Males tend to show greater sexual concern in comparison with females. This dimension refers to diminished sexual enjoyment and sexual self-esteem. The failure of their procreative body functions is often devastating for men, especially since they are so closely linked with sexuality. Men may consider it an assault on their masculinity. ¹³ The ability to conceive a child has become a criteria for being a real man. Furthermore, the ability to conceive and the ability to continue the family tree are essential part of men’s masculinity and sexuality. Many people assume that infertile men cannot perform sexually. This stigma adds to the heightened insecurities in infertile men. Often, males do not show emotional stress in attempts to be the emotionally stable one within the relationship.

When a couple is ascertained to be suffering from infertility, regardless of who is more at fault, the male partner turns out to be comparatively more stressed out and hence, wallow in self-pity and indulge in acts of either remorse or denial or rationalization.

As a social convention, it is considered that for a man, his prowess lies in his sexual potency. This belief is so fiercely entrenched in the society that even a minor aberration or inadequacy is regarded as an unacceptable incapacity.

If our society did not ascribe that degree of importance to the concept of masculinity, then probably, much of the desperation and disenchantment amongst males could have been avoided. Such is the power of social belief that a nondescript male lacunae, invariably, leads to a self-punishing aggravation of one’s already existing weakness.

One aspect which has been much overlooked in this “warfield” is that once a couple seeks treatment for their infertility, all suggestions and advices become a matter of conscious striving to ameliorate a life of downswing, and as a result, the entire exercise becomes ritualistic or gets beset by act of lassitude. Much of the vigor which could have been instrumental in transforming the lives of the suffering couple, especially, the male partner, ebbs away under the hyperawareness catapulted by the treatment procedure. This state of affairs impose additional burden on the languishing man.

Sex may become a reminder of the couple’s failure to have a child. The increased intrusion into the sexual habits of the couples by the medical team’s recommendation for timed intercourse, frequent intercourse, or limited intercourse may make sex feel like a chore. The intimacy and pleasure usually derived from sexual relations may be identified as another loss by the couple. ¹⁴

Social Support and Relationship Concern

In the current study, overall relationship concern has been higher for females as compared to males. This dimension refers to difficulties in talking about infertility, understanding/accepting sex differences, and concerns about impact on relationship. In any social quagmire, support system is of vital importance, as it not only bolsters up motivation, but it also increases stress absorption capacity of human beings. In an infertile couple, just like a warring couple, it becomes crucial to have a supportive framework to emerge out of a crisis state. Women are more susceptible to infertility-related stress since in most human societies, womenfolk are given more onus of responsibility than their male counterparts.

The results of different studies ¹⁵ showed that an increase in stress resulting from infertility may cause distress in marital relations and reduce women’s marital satisfaction. Furthermore, the results showed that infertility is more stressful in women than men which could be because of a higher relationship concern. ¹⁶ An impact of moderate to severe infertility-related stress on depression has been observed. ¹⁷ When pregnancy is delayed, the relatives may bring the couple under pressure to have a baby and this may cause worry. These factors bring negative attitude toward social acceptance because they are sensitive to this attitude and acceptance of relatives. ¹⁸

Need for Parenthood

Females have a higher need for parenthood as compared to men. This dimension refers to close identification with the role of parent and parenthood is perceived as primary or essential goal in life. Parenthood from the standpoint of social historicity is largely a matter of pride and satisfaction after a couple gets tied by the juxtaposed bond of marriage. Getting married, rearing up children, and nurturing them right into their adulthood, is an exercise of conventional choice and also an inescapable path in the lives of a married couple. Even though, in the post-modern times, many married couple decide to go without children, yet deep inside their personal lives, they sense a shuddering feeling of unbearable loneliness and chasm, yet they hardly have the courage to admit their predicament.

It was found in our previous study that infertile women were more depressed than men as they imagined themselves as mothers long before actually trying to have children and when this is withdrawn it resulted in feeling a loss of control. ¹⁹ This study also noted that men and women desired children with similar intensities. Traditional society upholds the transition to parenthood as one that occurs following the marriage of a couple. ¹⁸ Infertility can spoil this concept of an ideal normative transition and place feelings of guilt and shame upon couples and individuals grappling with the changing schema of their family identity. ¹⁹ Despite the fact that over population is major problem in India, having children is firmly necessary for every married woman because infertility is the stigma of barrenness and the absence of the pleasures of motherhood. On some occasions, the very presence of an infertile woman is considered inauspicious, which add to the stigma of infertility. Many women reported that baby increases prestige in in-laws. If they were unable to give birth, they were largely blamed for infertility. Reproduction in the Eastern cultures holds the highest values and when childbearing seems impossible, probable psychological crisis sets in.

In the current study, it has been found that males used confrontation coping more than women. It describes aggressive efforts to alter the situation and suggests some degree of hostility and risk-taking. In this style of coping, individuals use both behavioral and cognitive strategies to eliminate the source of stress by changing the stressful situation. Engaging in problem solving activities related to infertility treatment, and planning for alternative family building strategies could also be a means of coping.

It was observed that women seek social support as a means of coping more than men. A study on 615 women seeking infertility treatment in southern Ghana found that women preferred to keep issues of their fertility problems to themselves which could be due to the associated stigma of infertility. ²⁰ This type of coping refers to seeking emotional support from people, one’s family, and one’s friends to deal with their problems. This could be informational support, tangible support, and emotional support.

Positive reappraisal was used more by women than men as a means of coping in the present study. Positive reappraisal is associated with reframing a situation and seeing it in a positive light. It describes efforts to create positive meaning by focusing on personal growth. It also has a religious dimension. We observed that they would try to cope by thinking more about the positive things in their life, try to do something meaningful, learn from their experience, see things positively, make the best of the situation, look on the bright side of things, find something good in what is happening, and try to do something that makes them feel positive. These would enable them to handle their distress better.

Men used self-controlling coping more than women in our study. This coping strategy describes efforts to regulate ones feelings and actions. This could be attributed to the fact that they keep their feelings to themselves through self-controlling strategies and emphasizing plans to solve the problem of infertility. ²¹

From the findings, it can be seen that to get an accurate picture of the infertility patient’s functioning and progress, the study of the psychological variables are important. Knowledge about the patient’s psychological health can further indicate the directions needed for more efficient treatment and help to bridge the gap between the clinician and the patient. Each of the variables studied are important for infertility patients irrespective of the etiology (male factor, female factor, and unexplained factor) and needs to be addressed.

Though the authors tried to maintain the qualities of a good scientific research, but some of the limitations could not be avoided like sample size estimation was not calculated based on the population to claim the proper representation, sample was collected only from one clinic, therefore, a particular strata could only be included, the data was collected through a single contact, as a result, with time whether psychological manifestations were changing could not be evaluated and this research depended on self-report findings. Information from other sources could not be obtained to confirm the findings of the self-report.

However, this particular study had some good strengths like this study included all three primary infertility groups, that is, male factor infertility, female factor infertility, unexplained factor infertility, most of the infertility studies focus on the female subjects, whereas this study collected data from both partners considering both of them as victims and we could control many psychosocial confounders through matching of the sample to minimize error.