Abstract

Dr. Muskal has been helping women for more than 30 years to manage the challenges, transitions, uncertainties, joys, and loss of pregnancy. Taking a mindful approach in her clinical practice, Dr. Muskal believes that clinicians should be aware of the issues that arise during and after pregnancy to optimize the woman's experience throughout the perinatal period including birthing. In this column, Dr. Muskal discusses some of the challenges women face during and after pregnancy and how an integrative and wellness approach can help improve outcomes for both mom and baby.
Another challenge along the same line is intrusive thinking and that can occur during pregnancy and postpartum, and some women have intrusive thoughts about something happening to their child. For example, they may become obsessive about the foods they eat, and if they eat a certain ingredient, that woman may literally become obsessed that the child will be ill-affected because of their eating “mistake.” They get caught in a loop of thinking this way. This can create a perfect storm for mood disorders such as anxiety, depression, and obsessive compulsive disorder, which as I mentioned are common in pregnant women. Clinicians should be aware whether their pregnant patients have had prior experiences with mood disorders outside of pregnancy because their risk for recurrence may be higher, and this is important to know early on and even before pregnancy. Psychiatrists, mid wives, obstetricians and gynecologists, and primary care clinicians including internists, pediatricians, and family practitioners need to be aware of their patients' and family history and past pregnancies and should ask questions about social support such as “Do they have family and friends surrounding them?”
Intrauterine loss is another significant issue I see in my practice. These moms and partners often come to me with a birth trauma story—many have had to go through a birth where they knew the child was not going to live or the baby was born and died imminently. They already may have a child, and that makes it even more complicated because they feel they have disappointed their living child who thought they would have a sibling. This significant loss creates a life time of grappling in stages. Many coupled families today have reminders in the home such as an urn in a central location or a holiday ornament with the name of the baby on it. Holding a place for this child in their life allows for ongoing recognition and integration of that child.
We need to be aware also of the inequities that exist in our world, which significantly increase the rate of birth traumas including fetal and maternal deaths for minorities and the underserved. There has to be a movement toward better care before, during and after pregnancy for all women. An important resource regarding this issue is Evidence Based Birth (
One thing that is very helpful is a cognitive approach for the moms who tend to be obsessive or fearful about things going wrong. So it is very important that women identify their fears and are able to share their story line. For example, mom had a sip of wine, and then her fears increase, but often her fears are not realistic. So the cognitive piece is critical because it teaches them to get out of the hamster-cage thinking loop and catch the story loop and bring it back to the present moment awareness and focus on the reality, which may be that “I am 5 months pregnant and everything is fine.” Catching the story line and bringing it back to the reality of the now is critical. They may catch that story line immediately or after a bit of time, which helps stop catastrophizing way down the timeline. What matters is that they catch it and then they can come back to more realistic thinking. I have patients give me an example of what their fear is and have them tell me what their thoughts or images are and then tell me what they have imagined will happen. Then I teach them at that moment to learn to stop the story and come back to present moment awareness. Sometimes, I have them accomplish that by putting their hand on their belly, where the baby is thriving and kicking and come back to the reality of the healthy baby.
Regarding yoga, there are poses that target anxiety and depression and also target tension. Although there are precautions for pregnant women and yoga, I have found that certain poses can help people shift and make these uncomfortable feelings and sensations decrease. 1 I do a lot of teaching of breathing and meditation. We practice that together in the office, so that when they get home they can practice appropriately on their own.
I also refer my pregnant patients to acupuncture, chiropractors, massage therapists, and group therapy. One of the most well-known and respected organizations within the field is Postpartum Support International (PSI). This organization focuses on education, and support and they offer free services, group therapy, help lines, and facilitators and coordinators that can refer women to services including clinical and complementary providers around the world. PSI has chapters in many states in the United States, and those chapters are mirroring the larger organization and are a local resource for clinicians and pregnant women.
Bibliotherapy is an excellent therapy I use, where my patient and I talk about a book together that covers strategies for intrusive thoughts or explores dialectical behavioral therapy, etc.
Another critical aspect of the integrative approach to pregnancy when working with pregnant clients is that clinicians should be teaching the client what to do when they are not in the office. The therapies I use in my office are therapies that have to be learned in my office so that they can be used at home. Practicing 50 minutes a week in my office will not be enough to truly help the client.
The complementary therapies are hands-on in the office and are action based including journaling. For example, in the early postpartum weeks, I help parents come up with a calendar for night-shift feeding, who is buying the groceries, etc. so that the expectations of each other are clear, and we incorporate time so that each has her own respite.
Then of course as previously mentioned, clinicians should be on the lookout for history of mood disorders and work with the appropriate specialists to help ensure their patients receive proper treatment. There is an entire industry of reproductive psychiatrists who can be very helpful in this area and are frontline prescribers.
Many clinicians who are not obstetricians/gynecologists may assume that the patient's wellness plan is fully covered by the specialist, when in fact primary care clinicians should be interactive and proactive in helping pregnant women make healthy lifestyle choices to ensure a healthy mom and baby. ▪
To Contact Dr. Robin Muskal
Robin Muskal, PhD, PMHC, LPC
Psychotherapist, Owner, Postpartum Wellness Counseling, LLC, Florham Park, New Jersey, USA
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