Abstract
Sexual offending behavior is a complex and multifaceted phenomenon. Most existing etiological models describe sexual offending behavior as a variant of offending behavior and mostly include factors referring to disinhibition and sexual deviance. In this article, we argue that there is additional value in describing sexual offending behavior as sexual behavior in terms of an incentive model of sexual motivation. The model describes sexual arousal as an emotion, triggered by a competent stimulus signaling potential reward, and comparable to other emotions coupled with strong bodily reactions. Consequently, we describe sexual offending behavior in terms of this new model with emphasis on the development of deviant sexual interests and preferences. Summarized, the model states that because sexual arousal itself is an emotion, there is a bidirectional relationship between sexual self-regulation and emotional self-regulation. Not only can sex be used to regulate emotional states (i.e., sexual coping), emotions can also be used, consciously or automatically, to regulate sexual arousal (i.e., sexual deviance). Preliminary support for the model is drawn from studies in the field of sex offender research as well as sexology and motivation research.
In this article, we will present an incentive motivational model of sexual offending behavior and the development of sexual deviancea. (Key terms regarding sexual deviance are marked with a and defined in Table 1.) We will start with (a) a short overview of the commonalities of existing models for sexual offending behavior and framing our proposed model in the existing literature. We will then proceed to give (b) a concise description of sexual behavior in terms of an incentive motivational model (IMM). Next we will (c) use this IMM to describe characteristics of sexual offending behavior. The core of the article consequently explores (d) how an IMM can be used to describe the etiology of sexual deviance as well as (e) elucidate the various routes of sexual coping. Finally, we will (f) describe interrelations between the various sexual self-regulation mechanisms, and we conclude with (g) the assessment of the strengths and weaknesses of the model. The current article is an updated and extended version of the earlier introduced rudimentary model (Smid & Wever, 2016). We updated the description of sexual offending behavior in terms of the model and added a model for the development of sexual deviance.
Concepts Concerning Sexual Deviance as Used in This Article.
“Illegal” refers to sexual interests that are illegal if acted upon (e.g., children); the interest itself is not illegal.
Existing Models
Over the past decades, numerous theories and models on the onset of sexual offending have been developed (see Ward, Polaschek, & Beech, 2006, for a comprehensive overview of theories/models and their respective empirical support). Although the broad consensus is that sexual offending behavior is a complex and multifaceted phenomenon, certain basic commonalities can be drawn from the existing models. First, from Finkelhor’s (1984) precondition model to Seto’s (2017a) motivation-facilitation model, all existing theories recognize an important motivating role for sexual deviance, mostly in the shape of illegal sexual interestsa and illegal sexual preferencesa as a driving force behind sexual offending. (“Illegal” refers to sexual interests that are illegal if acted upon [e.g., children]; the interest itself is of course not illegal.) Second, all existing sex offender models suggest that disinhibition significantly increases the likelihood that someone will commit a sexual offense. Disinhibition can take the shape of a temporary state, for example, intoxication (e.g., Seto, 2017a) or a more stable trait (e.g., Hall & Hirschman, 1992; Ward & Siegert, 2002), rendering the offender incapable of controlling the driving force of his illegal sexual interest, despite the mores of society. There is also a more deliberate form of disinhibition in the shape of antisociality, for example, lack of empathy (Marshall & Barbaree, 1990) or detachment (Ward, Hudson, & Marshall, 1996), which renders the offender, regardless of capability, unwilling to inhibit acting on his illegal desires.
A third commonality among most current sex offender models with the exception of evolutionary approaches (more on this in “Sexual Offending Behavior is Sexual Behavior”) lies in their predominant description of sexual offending behavior as a variant of offending behavior, drawing on research comparing sexual offenders to nonsexual offenders or nonoffenders. The factor disinhibition, both in the shape of impulsivity and antisociality, is indeed equally common in models related to nonsexual offending behavior (e.g., Andrews & Bonta, 2010) and there appears to be considerable overlap between sexual offending behavior and other offending behaviors. This is reflected in the often broad criminal careers of sex offenders (e.g., Lussier, LeBlanc, & Proulx, 2005), the possibility to predict future sex offending from general offending in juveniles (Beaudry-Cyr, Jennings, Zgoba, & Tewksbury, 2017; Zimring, Jennings, Piquero, & Hays, 2009), and the higher nonsexual than sexual recidivism rates for sex offenders (e.g., Hanson & Bussière, 1998; Smallbone & Wortley, 2000). However, sexual offending at the same time is regarded as a very typical form of offending behavior in need of its own models and theories (Ward et al., 2006). Overall, the disinhibition factor is regarded as closely related to offending behavior in general while the sexual deviance factor is seen as typical for sexual offending. The available recidivism research seems consistent with this assumption: Disinhibition-related factors predict all types of reoffenses while sexual deviance–related factors predict sexual reoffenses specifically and make no significant contribution to the prediction of nonsexual offenses (e.g., Brouillette-Alarie, Babchishin, Hanson, & Helmus, 2016). Sexual deviance appears to be the key factor that makes the offender a sex offender. Consequently, one of the most interesting questions in sex offender theory becomes, “What causes sexual deviance?”
Some sex offender models include precursors to the development of sexual deviance in the form of early negative experiences, such as childhood maltreatment and more specifically childhood sexual abuse (e.g., Malamuth, 1996; Finkelhor, 1984; Marshall & Barbaree, 1990; Ward & Beech, 2006). Childhood sexual abuse is theorized to either directly influence the development of pedophilic interesta or indirectly through disturbed attachment styles (Ward et al., 1996), lack of self-esteem, intimacy deficits (Finkelhor, 1984; Marshall & Barbaree, 1990), or poor social skills (Ward & Siegert, 2002). These traits are thought to create a social focus on children who are regarded as safe and accepting, while these traits at the same time may limit sexual access to adults (Finkelhor, 1984). It remains unclear how the social focus on children becomes a sexual interest, although Marshall and Barbaree (1990) suggest this may happen through a process of aggression displacement, reconfirmed by conditioning effects. None of these suggested causal routes have been empirically validated, although an association between childhood sexual abuse and abuse perpetration is often found (Jespersen, Lalumière, & Seto, 2009).
Ward and Beech’s (2006) integrated theory of sexual offending (ITSO) takes a step further back from early childhood experiences to innate vulnerabilities as precursors of risk factors for sexual offending behavior. However, examples provided by the authors refer to innate vulnerabilities for general criminal behavior, not for sexual deviance. Similarly, Kafka’s (2003) neurobiological theory implies an innate biological precursor of sexual offending behavior by suggesting that pedophilia is associated with dysregulation of serotonergic receptor sensitivity. However, Kafka assumes that this dysregulation results in a propensity toward behavioral disinhibition (Soubrie, 1986) and specifically toward violence and impulsive aggression (Kavoussi, Armstead, & Coccaro, 1997), thus again linking the biological precursor to disinhibition rather than to sexual deviance. It is worth noting that this is not in accordance with the clinical observation that pedophilic offenders often do not seem to act impulsively and violently but tend to groom their victims. The presence of deviant sexual interests and the acting out of those interests appear to be two different things. Whereas the acting out is likely influenced by disinhibition, the existence is probably not. The existence of nonoffending pedophiles attests to this, and recent research suggests that they distinguish themselves from offending pedophiles by better inhibition (Kärgel et al., 2017).
As Ward et al. (2006) conclude in their overview of current sex offender theory, the available models mostly provide a good overview of what we know about the (correlational) relationship between risk factors and sexual (re)offending but have not yet yielded many suggestions or testable hypotheses regarding the causal pathways between these risk factors and sexual offending behavior. The same applies to our knowledge of sexual deviance. Possible risk factors for the development of sexual deviance have been suggested, such as childhood sexual abuse; however, we are not sure through which mechanisms childhood abuse may lead to pedophilic interest.
More in general, most current models have not yet offered convincing explanations as to why so many, and so many relatively normal men commit sexual offenses (Smid, van Beek, & Troelstra, 2011). Equally interesting and unanswered is the question why most perpetrators of sexual offenses do not seem to persist, as it is becoming increasingly clear that even untreated (Schmucker & Lösel, 2015) and possibly unpunished (Bailey, Bernhard, & Hsu, 2016) sex offenders in majority do not persist in their sexual offending behavior. And although some of the current models do provide a feedback loop where sexual satisfaction resulting from offending behavior further entrenches deviance and increases the tendency to sexually offend, they do not provide a “way out.”
Sexual Offending Behavior Is Sexual Behavior
As argued above, most current sexual offending models describe sexual offending behavior as a form of offending behavior and often compare sex offenders to other, nonsexual offenders. We argue that enrichment of sex offender theory can be found in the description of sexual offending behavior as sexual behavior, especially if we aim to clarify possible mechanisms behind the development of sexual deviance.
The prevalence of sexually transgressive behavior varies depending on the definitions used. Studies using relatively broad definitions report up to 24% of a representative sample of 163 men in a large urban community, 18 to 49 years old, admitting to (attempted) rape (Abbey, Parkhill, Clinton-Sherrod, & Zawacki, 2007) and another study finds that 58% of 356 male students at a large, urban, Midwestern university, 19 to 48 years old, report some form of forcible sexual act (Zawacki, Abbey, Buck, McAuslan, & Clinton-Sherrod, 2003), a number even higher in a study concerning 93 male undergraduates from a small private Northeastern university, 18 to 25 years old: 68% (Schatzel-Murphy, Harris, Knight, & Milburn, 2009). Therefore, it is not unreasonable to assume that sexual offending behavior in general can be seen as an (extremely undesirable) variation of normal sexual behavior, rather than something categorically different. Knowledge on the mechanisms of normative sexual behavior may therefore help us to better understand sexual offending behavior, and we may even be able to describe both in the same model. Note that this argument does not mean that we in any way condone or accept sexual offending behavior or deny the similarities between sexual offending and other types of offending.
Evolutionary models of sexual offending are the only models to date that provide a description of sexual offending behavior as sexually motivated and relatively natural (although very undesirable) behavior (e.g., Quinsey & Lalumière, 1995; Thornhill & Palmer, 2001). It is generally accepted that people are the product of millions of years of evolution and evolutionary psychology tries to explain how human characteristics present today served an adaptive function in human evolution that increased odds for survival and procreation. This naturally includes characteristics of sexual behavior in general (e.g., Workman & Reader, 2014) but also sexual offending behavior, most specifically rape and, to a lesser extent, abuse of adolescent girls (age 13 years and older). These offenses have been described from an evolutionary point of view as an optional tactic for some men under some conditions to increase their reproductive success (Quinsey & Lalumière, 1995). The offenses have also been described as a side effect of men’s evolutionary developed sex drive and inclination to engage in impersonal sex, strategies which in turn increased their reproductive success (Thornhill & Palmer, 2001).
With regard to sexual offending behavior in general, the model proposed in this article can be seen as an elaboration of these evolutionary models, aiming specifically to describe causal sexual mechanisms involved in this behavior. With regard to the development of unusual (and decidedly nonadaptive) deviant sexual interests (fetishism, pedophilia, etc.), we believe evolutionary perspectives have not yet produced compelling suggestions or evidence for underlying causal mechanisms. On this specific topic, our proposed model is a new addition to the existing array of models. And while we keep in mind the evolutionary and biological nature of the human mind, we also acknowledge that evolution created a remarkably adaptive system and therefore plasticity, flexibility, idiosyncrasy, and learning processes make an essential contribution to our model.
An Incentive Model of Sexual Motivation
To compare sexual offending behavior to normative sexual behavior, we will use an incentive model of sexual motivation (for an extensive description, see Toates, 2014). Throughout the previous century, a drive and regulation view of sexual desire largely dominated the literature (e.g., Freud, 1955; Kaplan, 1995; Watson, 1930). In this view, sexual desire is seen as an intrinsic drive triggered by a bodily deficit or imbalance, comparable to hunger or thirst. Not having sex is assumed to increase tension and the desire for sex, while having sex is assumed to relieve tension and lower sexual desire. The organism is seen as regulating to keep itself in a sexual balance: homeostasis. Having too much or too little sex is perceived as a cause of physical and psychological problems.
However, little empirical support has been produced for this drive model. While thwarted sexual desire may give rise to feelings of frustration, not having sex is not detrimental to physiological functioning (e.g., Ågmo, 2008; Beach, 1956) or the cause of disease (e.g., Leitzmann, Platz, Stampfer, Willett, & Giovannucci, 2004) nor does it appear to lead to “sublimation” in the shape of increased creativity (Kinsey, Pomeroy, & Martin, 1948). Moreover, a lack of partner sex does not increase masturbation frequency (Laumann, 1994) or nocturnal orgasms (Kinsey, Pomeroy, Martin, & Gebhard, 1953). There is just as little indication for the possibility of “getting sex out of the system,” that is, reducing sexual desire by having sex. Neither in the short term, because having a lot of sex does not decrease sexual desire (beyond the limited physical refraction period), nor in the long term, for example, there is no evidence for less adultery in societies permissive of premarital sex (Suggs & Marshall, 1971). Experimental research shows that although sexually aroused subjects subsequently rate attractive individuals as still more attractive, the individuals they initially found unattractive are rated as even less attractive when sexually aroused (Istvan, Griffitt, & Weidner, 1983). This polarization effect contradicts the existence of an intrinsic sexual drive, searching any adequate outlet.
An incentive motivational approach steps away from the intrinsic drive and regulation approach and instead emphasizes an important initiating role for the stimulus:
An alternative to the view that we are pushed by something arising within the tissues of the body and then happen upon a suitable means of discharge is termed the incentive view of motivation [. . .]. That is to say, people are pulled by external stimuli, thoughts about them and their associations. [. . .] In the view advanced here, rather than internal factors, such as hormone levels, driving the animal, human or otherwise, they modulate the power of the incentive to exert a pull. [. . .] Such a view has now largely replaced drive interpretations inside scientific sexology (Both, Everaerd, & Laan, 2007). (Toates, 2014, pp. 103, 107)
In general, there is no motivation without a stimulus that predicts reward or danger (Schultz, 1998) and this also applies to sexual motivationb (Key terms regarding sexual motivation are marked with b and defined in Table 2). People, much like animals, become initially sexually aroused by neurochemical and hormonal changes following the perception of a competent stimulusb (Herbert, 2001; Pfaus, 2009). In a process referred to as likingb (Berridge, Robinson, & Aldridge, 2009; Robinson & Berridge, 1993), parts of the brain, that is, insula and the orbitofrontal cortex (Craig, 2002; Morris, 2002; Sumich, Kumari, & Sharma, 2003) interpret the neurobiological changes caused by the competent stimulus as initial sexual arousalb, a process involving the endogenous opioid system and other reward systems (Pfaus, 2009).
Terms and Definitions Concerning the Presented Incentive Motivational Model.
Simultaneously, the processing of the competent stimulus results in physiological changes preparing the body for action/appetitive behavior, a process referred to as wantingb (Berridge et al., 2009; Robinson & Berridge, 1993) involving the limbic system and mesolimbic dopamine pathway (Pfaus, 2009). Dopamine is the central neurotransmitter in this motivational process, involved in both reward-signaling and the initiation of motor responses (Phillips, Stuber, Heien, Wightman, & Carelli, 2003). Testosterone is known to sensitize these neurological pathways, making it more likely that a given stimulus will trigger a wanting reaction (Hermans et al., 2010). Dopamine does not seem to be involved in assessing the valence of a stimulus (liking), but is involved in the tendency to approach a stimulus (wanting; Berridge, 1996). Various studies have shown facilitating effects of dopamine on sexual motivation in animals (Melis & Argiolas, 1995) and in humans (Both, Everaerd, Laan, & Gooren, 2005; Meston & Frohlich, 2000).
In other words, the processing of a competent stimulus automatically prepares an organism for sexual activity, by means of two processes, liking and wanting, underlined by two distinguishable neurobiological processes. Liking refers to the positive affective response to a certain stimulus, and wanting refers to the tendency to approach such a stimulus. Together they form what we will call sexual desireb, a magnetic pull toward the competent stimulus. In general, a stronger stimulus (e.g., a more explicitly sexual or a more preferred stimulus) will elicit a stronger reaction. Competent stimuli may be perceived in the environment or may be imagined in case of sexual fantasy. The evaluation of stimuli, which is largely subconscious and automatic, is influenced to a great extent by an individual’s personal history of sexual reward and sexual gratificationb (Pfaus, Kippin, & Centeno, 2001). This means that personal experience plays an important part in the evolvement of stimuli that elicit the strongest reaction: the most competent stimuli (Toates, 2009).
The presence of a competent stimulus (actual or imagined) will trigger liking and wanting, but whether or not the individual proceeds to take action depends on the individual’s aptitude for (dis)inhibitionb. (Dis)inhibition involves quick subconscious and automatic elements, increasingly automated through the process of socialization and learning as well as a slower more conscious and deliberate appraisal of opportunities and risks and possible rewards and detriments, open to cognitive processes, for example, weighing the consequences (Toates, 2009). Serotonin is reported as the neurotransmitter most closely related to these inhibition processes (Dalley & Roiser, 2012; Pfaus, 2009).
Note that the model implies that sexual desire is caused by initial sexual arousal rather than sexual desire causing sexual arousal, although acting on this desire will in turn reinforce arousal. Instead of assuming that people feel (intrinsic) sexual desire and therefore set out to find stimuli that provide sexual arousal, the model assumes that competent stimuli arouse people and are consequently interpreted as sexually desirable. However, it is important to note that people are cognitively evolved; they do not live in the moment, but remember yesterday and look forward to tomorrow. Instead of merely feeling or not feeling sexual arousal, people may want to become sexually aroused and actively seek out stimuli to arouse them; they may “want to want” (Toates, 2014, p. 139).
Besides sexual arousal, an incentive motivational approach is applicable to a wide range of emotions (Craig, 2002; Morris, 2002; Sumich et al., 2003) and appetitive behaviors (Georgiadis & Kringelbach, 2012). Functional imaging studies show that subjective experiences of different emotions like anger, disgust, and anxiety are associated with activation of the same brain structures, indicating a generalized route for emotional states and not to a specific feedback route for sexual arousal (Both et al., 2007). Experimental research has shown that both sexually arousing and anxiety-inducing stimuli evoked different subjective appreciation, but comparable general somatic motor system responses, which prepare the organism for action (Both, Everaerd, & Laan, 2003).
Reviews report ample evidence for the involvement of distinguishable brain structures, activation, and neurotransmitters in sexual arousal (e.g., Georgiadis, Kringelbach, & Pfaus, 2012) and other emotional processes (e.g., Georgiadis & Kringelbach, 2012) that are in line with an IMM. Experimental research has shown that stronger sexual stimuli evoke proportionally larger wanting reactions (Both, Boxtel, Stekelenburg, Everaerd, & Laan, 2005), which are in turn associated with the increased likelihood of engagement in actual sexual behavior (Both, Spiering, Everaerd, & Laan, 2004). Although it is not the only possible perspective, we believe an incentive model of sexual motivation provides a useful framework for the description of sexual behavior including sexual offending behavior, with the ability to produce new and testable hypotheses.
The Sexual Motivation Cycle
It is important to recognize that sexual arousalb is (mostly) not a goal in and of itself; the goal of sexual arousal is usually sexual gratification. However, sexual arousal is not an on/off button that guarantees gratification once arousal is present. The road from initial sexual arousal to orgasm rather has been described as a complex and subtle interplay of inhibition and disinhibition (Pfaus, 2009). We propose a model in which, from the perception of a competent stimulus to the actual engagement in sexual interaction and the achievement of gratification, the motivational cycle of liking, wanting, and disinhibition is repeated multiple times (see Figure 1).

A schematic representation of the sexual motivation cycle.
The individual’s brain is evolutionary tuned to detect relevant stimuli that signal the possibility of sexual reward, assumed they are not currently engaged in other important activities that vie for their attention (Toates, 2014). Such a competent sexual stimulus triggers initial arousal in brain and body that is (unconsciously) interpreted as sexual (liking) and incites an approach tendency toward the attractive stimulus (wanting), which may be acted upon if not inhibited. The individual approaches the desired stimulus in an effort to make a connection, for instance by flirting. If contact is achieved, this provides a reward in the shape of a stronger stimulus which in turn invokes a stronger reaction, leading to closer contact. Initial arousal in the early stages to a still relatively mild stimulus or arousal that is sufficiently (automatically) inhibited can be latently present but may remain unconscious to the individual and may not be recognized as sexual arousal. Arising behavior can nonetheless be placed under the denominator of sexual behavior.
Subsequently, the motivation cycle is repeated to achieve stronger, more sexually explicit stimuli (kissing, touching, etc.) and to gradually increase sexual arousal while decreasing inhibition. Gradually, the sexual arousal will become strong enough and the inhibition low enough to enable fully aware genital arousalb. Continuation of the sexual interaction will further increase arousal and lower inhibition, preferably neither too slow nor too fast, until gratification is achieved. Theoretically, the individual can step out of the sexual motivation cycle at any time if sufficient inhibition is incited (automatic or deliberate); however, this is likely to get increasingly more difficult when the individual is closer to orgasm.
Consistent with this assumption of a cyclic and gradual process of sexual motivation, studies in rats have found that levels of dopamine gradually increase throughout the process of approach, anticipation, and copulation (Mas, Fumero, Fernandez-Vera, & Gonzalez-Mora, 1995), while at the time of ejaculation serotonin is released and dopamine release is inhibited (Hull et al., 1999). To further test this assumption, it is recommended that future research aim to cover all possible stages of sexual motivation, from initial liking and approach tendency to orgasm, in addition to the current predominant focus on genital arousal triggered by the use of explicit sexual stimuli. As an example, viewing time measures, used for the assessment of sexual interest, appear to rely on the earlier stages of sexual motivation. These instruments use nonsexual stimuli depicting potentially attractive individuals, assuming that the attention given to these stimuli reflects someone’s sexual interest in them (e.g., Schmidt, Babchishin, & Lehmann, 2017). This type of assessment can be expanded to the more direct assessment of approach tendencies toward attractive stimuli by means of an approach avoidance task (AAT; Weidacker et al., 2017).
Sexual Offending Behavior
The proposed IMM can be applied to the description of sexual offending behavior and its relationship to normal sexual behavior (Smid & Wever, 2016). First, the motivational model assigns an important role to (dis)inhibition and purports that (dis)inhibition is not just a significant factor related to offending behavior but is also a crucial factor in sexual behavior. Second, the sexual deviance factor is prominent in the model and can be described in terms of stimulus preference and liking. Sexually deviant interests can be understood as a liking reaction to a deviant stimulus. Taking an intermittent position between evolutionary/biological and learning models, the IMM assumes that competent stimuli are an evolutionary given to a certain extent but that there is room for adaption and refining by means of learning and conditioning. From an evolutionary perspective, people will be more attracted to characteristics signaling greater evolutionary fitness or “mate value” (Symons, 1995), such as greater physical health (e.g., smooth skin) and reproductive potential (e.g., younger women). However, some determinants of stimulus attractiveness are culturally determined, such as body size (Buss, 2003), and others are idiosyncratic, reflected in the finding that mere exposure also increases stimulus attraction (Meston & Buss, 2009). Furthermore, prior research has shown that even straightforward classical conditioning can, to some extent, attach nonsexual stimuli to sexual arousal. This has been shown both in animals (e.g., Pfaus, Erickson, & Talianakis, 2013) as well as in humans (Brom, 2016; Brom, Both, Laan, Everaerd, & Spinhoven, 2014). Another important feature of the IMM is that it describes sexual arousal itself as an emotional reaction to a stimulus, comparable to other emotions. This creates a new perspective regarding mechanisms of sexual self-regulation as well as general emotion regulation in relationship to sex. The mechanisms of sexual self-regulation will be further elaborated on in “Sexual Deviance and Deficiency” and “Sexual Coping: A Two-Way Street”. But first we will use the model to further discuss the prevalence of sexual offending behavior and sex offender recidivism.
As mentioned, an IMM implies an important role for (dis)inhibition in normal sexual behavior. A desired deviant sexual stimulus will not be approached if adequate inhibition occurs. And a normative sexual stimulus will not be (further) approached if the liking and wanting is inadequately overinhibited. Disinhibition is, however, not the entry point of the cycle. For someone to unsuccessfully inhibit sexual action toward an illegal stimulus (and eventually commit an offense), he must first be at least somewhat sexually attracted to that illegal stimulus. In other words, an offender needs to first appreciate the stimulus to reach the point of (dis)inhibition. Illegal sexual interest is therefore crucial to sexual offending, like in other sex offender models.
Research shows that most prevalent sexual offending behavior is directed against girls/women above 10 and below 25 years old, clearly and consistently peaking around age 14 to 15 years, regardless of the age of the perpetrator (Felson & Cundiff, 2014; Finkelhor, Ormrod, & Chaffin, 2009; Snyder, 2000). Felson and Cundiff (2014) conclude that “the risk of sexual victimization increased dramatically with sexual maturation and declined dramatically after the teenage years” (pp. 282). Not coincidentally, teenage and young adult women are also the most common competent stimuli for men, and the authors go as far as to suggest that the pattern they found in the ages of rape/abuse victims “reflects male sexuality” (pp. 273). Research shows that (some) illegal sexual interest can be quite common. And although there is ample discussion on whether or not sexual interest in pubescent children is adaptive from an evolutionary perspective (e.g., Seto, 2017b vs. Rind, 2017), sexual arousal to stimuli involving pubescent girls from age 13 years and up is commonly found in phallometric research as is sexual arousal to rape stimuli (Lalumière, Harris, Quinsey, & Rice, 2005). Although the levels of these illegal interests may vary in strength, some level of interest is so common that it appears to be (even) more prevalent than the associated offending behaviors. This means that disinhibition, in all its modalities, is the key factor for the occurrence or nonoccurrence of the associated sexual offending behaviors.
As discussed in the “Existing Models” section, there is ample support for the importance of disinhibition in sexual offending in general. For instance, intoxication, causing a state of disinhibition, is present in a substantial proportion of sexual assaults. Around one third of all sex offenses (Kraanen & Emmelkamp, 2011) and in 40% to 70% of college sexual assaults (Abbey, Wegner, Woerner, Pegram, & Pierce, 2014) are committed under the influence of alcohol or drugs. Relatively normal men can be capable of uncharacteristic behavior when under the influence of alcohol or drugs. This behavior can be limited to (one-time) sexual offending behavior without being associated with other antisocial behavior, because (dis)inhibition is a core feature of sexual motivation. Based on an IMM, we would expect to see this type of offense more in situations where the sexual motivation cycle is already well underway, for example, parties with many attractive individuals and possibilities to approach. And counterintuitive as it may seem, we would also expect to see this behavior more often involving a victim that the perpetrator actually really likes, for example, dating situations or (casual) relationships. These expectations match the literature on this topic (e.g., Gidycz, Warkentin, & Orchowski, 2007). As far as we know, an IMM is the only model that provides a clear offense path for this group of offenders.
Most sexual offenses are directed against victims that are generally considered attractive; however, a smaller but still substantial part of sexual offending behavior is directed against girls and boys under the age of 12 years. Although there is a positive relationship between children’s age and prevalence, younger victims are more rare (Felson & Cundiff, 2014). And a small part of sex offenses consist of extreme forms of rape, like sadistic rape or lust murder. Very young children and extreme violence or cruelty are not general or common competent stimuli for men. Research indicates that some level of sexual interest in prepubertal children can be found in approximately 20% of men (Green, 2002; Seto, 2008) and 4% to 10% have been reported to actively fantasize about prepubescent children (Ahlers et al., 2011; Dombert et al., 2016). Ahlers et al. (2011) also report sadistic fantasies in 22% of their subjects. It is unclear how many of those are interested in extreme violence, torture, or murder, but that is likely to be less. The IMM, consistent with other models, accounts for these types of offenses, by suggesting a more important role for sexual deviance: Most men will not have these sexual interests and find no need to inhibit sexual behavior when faced with a possible stimulus of this kind. Those who do have these interests still need to disinhibit to actually commit an offense. This combination of factors renders these offenses far less likely to occur.
Recidivism
Arguably one of the most remarkable things that sex offender research has shown is that most sex offenders, at least those caught and punished by law, either treated or untreated, do not seem to persist (Schmucker & Lösel, 2015). Whether or not they refrain from repeated offending to avoid the negative consequences, the majority of offenders appear to be able to consequently limit themselves to sexual activity with normative or at least legal stimuli. It has been suggested that factors leading to the onset of sexual offending could be different from the factors sustaining this behavior (Ward & Beech, 2006), although these differences are not separately accounted for in most models. Marshall and Barbaree (1990) do include the effect of conditioning as a sustaining factor. In their view, the rewarding effect of the offense in the form of sexual gratification as a rule ingrains and sustains sexual deviance and sexual offending behavior. However, this effect is apparently not that strong, if most offenders can walk away from this behavior with relative ease, despite having committed one or multiple sexual offenses. An IMM solves this contradiction by describing sexual offending largely as a (very reprehensible) variation of normal sexual behavior and therefore not necessarily as the outcome of the developmental process, but also as a possible, although certainly not necessary, (serious mis)step along the way to adult normative sexual behavior.
Thus, the more interesting question becomes, “Why do some offenders persist, even in the face of serious, negative consequences (and often in spite of remorse, shame, and guilt) and become ‘habitual’ sex offenders?” We know from the existing literature that persistent recidivists are characterized by the major risk factors high antisocial/impulsive traits and/or sexual deviance. Those characterized by high antisocial/impulsive traits tend to reoffend as part of a pattern of antisocial behavior and have a higher risk to reoffend with nonsexual offenses than with sexual offenses, while those stronger characterized by sexual deviance are more specifically at risk for new sexual offenses (e.g., Hanson & Morton-Bourgon, 2005). Many of those sexually deviant offenders are not particularly impulsive and some are hardly antisocial beyond their sexual offending behavior. What makes these deviant offenders continue their behavior?
Sexual Deviance and Deficiency
Sexual deviance is defined in many different ways in the literature. Sometimes the term is used to refer to any amount of sexual interest in any illegal or unusual sexual stimulusa (e.g., Stable-2007; Hanson, Harris, Scott, & Helmus, 2007), other times it is used to refer to an exclusive preferencea for a specific illegal stimulus, but often it is described as something in between. However, the assessment of sexual deviance, especially the implicit assessment, nearly always involves the assessment of individual preference for illegal stimuli (phallometric assessment, Implicit Association Tests, Viewing Time measures; Smid et al., 2011). This is what we refer to in this article as illegal sexual preferencea: an assessed preference by means of stronger erectile responses, longer viewing times, quicker reaction times to illegal stimuli than to normative stimuli.
But can an illegal sexual preference really be best and only understood as an exceptionally high level of interest in an illegal stimulus? If we take a closer look at the sexual preference studies that report raw data, these studies nearly always find both higher than average levels of interests in illegal stimuli and lower than average levels of interest in normative stimuli in deviant groups. Often, but certainly not always, the low level of normative interest even emerges as the proportionally larger effect (e.g., Becker, Kaplan, & Tenke, 1993; Blanchard et al., 2002; Howard, Longmore, Mason, & Martin, 1994; Nunes, Firestone, & Baldwin, 2007; Poeppl et al., 2011; Renaud et al., 2014; Rice, Harris, Lang, & Chaplin, 2012; Seto, Cantor, & Blanchard, 2006; van Leeuwen et al., 2013). It seems that deviant groups are at least as much characterized by remarkably low interest in normative stimuli as by a remarkably large interest in deviant stimuli. Even if we account for the probability that lower-than-expected responses to illegal stimuli may be partly due to deviant offenders “faking good,” it is still noticeable that they seem to be unable to fake good on the normative stimuli. Based on existing research, it is difficult to definitively assign primacy to either deviant overarousal or normative underarousal with regard to deviant preferences. Results vary (e.g., Blanchard et al., 2009; Chaplin, Rice, & Harris, 1995; Fromberger et al., 2013) and included subjects as well as used measures and measurements units (e.g., z-scores) may not be optimal for this purpose. New studies are required, preferably including “raw” measurements among relatively young subjects, who are not yet fully settled and conditioned in their preferences.
Nevertheless, the hypothesis that illegal sexual preference is associated with a lack of normative sexual interest is as valid as the assumption that illegal sexual preference is driven by an exceptionally high level of illegal interest. This provides us with an alternative perspective of illegal sexual preference as a deficiency. This applies to both pedophiles and paraphilic coercive rapists, with pedophiles often showing low interest in adults and rapists often showing low interest in consent. With respect to rapists it has been noted before that their “indifference to consent” is central to their sexual proclivities (Harris, Lalumiere, Seto, Rice, & Chaplin, 2012).
A deficiency perspective of sexual deviance is more consistent with clinical experience, where our deviant patients often do not strike us as people with extra special traits, but as men who are deficient in various ways. More importantly, this deficiency perspective provides us with a potential explanation for the common occurrence of occasional sexual offending versus the far more rare habitual sexual offending. Given the very common interest in some illegal stimuli (i.e., teenage girls and nonconsent), relatively many men will sexually offend at one point in their lives due to trait/state disinhibition. But most of these men are more likely to leave these potentially attractive stimuli alone for the sake of the consequences and instead focus on the legal stimuli, which also provide them with enough sexual motivation. However, those men who lack rewarding alternatives because they are not sufficiently triggered by normative stimuli will be far more likely to persist in their offending behavior even in the face of dire consequences. Or alternatively, they may resort to finding visual material reflecting their deviant preference online, which they may think of as less harmful or less risky. Finkelhor (1984) includes a lack of access to normative stimuli as a key factor in his model. However, access to normative stimuli will not help if there is a low sexual interest in these stimuli. Note that this assumption means that habitual deviant sex offenders could be very different from “common” sex offenders, to the point that they may even be opposite in some ways. It has been noted before that existing data contradict the use of a single model of arousal for all sex offenders (Barbaree & Marshall, 1991). Therefore, we recommended that studies on sexual deviance select and describe their included samples carefully and avoid the use of heterogeneous groups of “sex offenders” or “child molesters.”
Countering Deficiency: Mixing Emotions
To answer the question as to how someone develops deviant interests from sexual underarousal, we need to remember that the IMM describes sexual desire and arousal as an emotional reaction comparable to other emotional reactions coupled with strong bodily reactions. If sexual desire and arousal form an emotion like other emotions, then it is likely that it can be influenced by other emotions. Zillmann (1996) has noted that various emotions can amplify each other in a process he called “excitation transfer”. If an emotion surges while another lingering emotion is still present, it will “inseparably combine with the excitatory reaction to the present stimuli and thereby intensify both emotional behavior and emotional experience” (Zillmann, 1996, p. 250). In other words, one emotion lifts the other. Empirical support is found for transfer between numerous different emotions, from disgust and the enjoyment of music (Zillmann & Mundorf, 1987), frustration and euphoria (Fry & Ogston, 1971) to subjective sexual arousal and anger (Zillmann, Bryant, Comisky, & Medoff, 1981) and anxiety and genital sexual arousal (Hoon, Wincze, & Hoon, 1977). Although it is possible that similar emotions or emotions of similar valence have a stronger amplifying effect on each other, it is not necessary that both emotions are of comparable valence. In recent years, the concept of excitation transfer has been predominantly researched in the field of advertisement (e.g., Yegiyan, 2015), but there is no reason why it could not be helpful in our field of research.
We hypothesize that latent, low level, or suppressed (genital) sexual arousal can be increased by a co-occurring other emotion. The other emotion carries the sexual arousal to a higher level than it would have reached on its own. This effect can make latent sexual arousal suddenly visible and explicitly experienced. An example is the budding exhibitionist who is caught urinating in the woods by a girl and, overwhelmed by panic and shame, suddenly feels and sees his erection appear. Although this may seem like a far-fetched story, it is actually an often-recurring report of a first exhibitionistic experience as recorded by experienced therapists (N. ten Hoor, personal communication, September 2016). Such initial incidents promote the idea that the extra trigger is what caused the sexual arousal and embodies the stimulus that (finally) worked for this individual. This puts into motion a process germane to operant conditioning, in which the extra emotional trigger is perceived as the direct cause of the sexual arousal; the sexual arousal thus provides positive reinforcement for the approach of the (deviant) stimulus. Note that this process should not be confused with classical conditioning in which the accidental co-occurrence of sexual arousal and another (deviant) stimulus creates the association between the two (e.g., Marshall & Barbaree, 1990). Although classical conditioning of sexual responses has been proven possible (Brom et al., 2014), its effects are notoriously weak. Therefore, this seems an unlikely mechanism to underlie real-life etiology of deviant sexual interests. The effect of the instrumental conditioning process described above, in which the deviant stimulus is perceived as the direct cause of the sexual arousal, is much stronger and resilient than classical conditioning. But more importantly, men who are not easily aroused by normative stimuli will be more likely to experience strong positive reinforcement from their engagement with the deviant stimulus and will be inclined to revisit the experience where they did find sufficient arousal, thus further promoting the conditioning process. Especially in the lives of young men, being sexually active is often an important factor, creating a “want to want”. Men who are underaroused/overinhibited by nature may try to counter this situation by actively searching for the stimuli they have come to associate with sexual arousal, either in vivo or in fantasy.
In the appraisal of stimuli, memories of prior rewarding experiences will increase the incentive salienceb of a stimulus and result in stronger desire (Pool, Sennwald, Delplanque, Brosch, & Sander, 2016). These processes will further ingrain the conditioning of the (deviant) stimulus preference. Once the connection between the two emotions is thoroughly established, we know that “neurons wire together if they fire together” in a process of sensory preconditioning (Hebb, 1949; Löwel & Singer, 1992) and a well-conditioned stimulus may by itself be able to trigger a sexual reaction.
The model implies that (latent) sexual arousal needs to co-occur with the other emotion. In other words, hitting a toe in everyday life will not trigger sexual arousal in a potential masochist. However, a pain stimulus induced in the course of sexual play can heighten the experienced arousal. Self-identified sexual sadists, for instance, do not show much genital sexual arousal to nonsexual violent stimuli, but they do react to stimuli combining sex and violence (Seto, Lalumière, Harris, & Chivers, 2012). Note that this mechanism applies to the development of interest in both legal and illegal unusual stimuli.
Descriptions of the effect of added emotions on genital sexual arousal can be found in the existing sex offender literature. A study on classical conditioning of sexual stimuli (Hoffmann, Janssen, & Turner, 2004) aims to connect pictures of an abdomen and a gun to sexual arousal through classical conditioning. Contrary to the expectations, the nonsexually related picture of the gun achieves stronger conditioning effects than the sexually related picture of the abdomen in subjects who initially show higher general arousal to the gun. In other words, those subjects who feel stronger emotions to the gun (possibly fear) are more likely to associate the gun with sexual arousal through classical conditioning. Yates, Barbaree, and Marshall (1984) show that triggering anger in normal men increases their subsequent genital sexual arousal to rape stimuli. A more recent study (Lalumière, Fairweather, Harris, Suschinsky, & Seto, 2016) shows that happy and sad emotional states alike increase genital sexual arousal to sexually violent stimuli in community subjects. The authors suggest that the extra emotion lowers subjects’ inhibition to the violent sexual stimuli. And indeed, in their experiment both sadness and happiness increase arousal to violent sexual stimuli but do not increase the community subjects’ arousal to the normative consensual stimuli. This is consistent with their assumption that the extra emotions foremost reduce inhibition to the deviant stimuli, whereas their subjects’ reactions to the normative stimuli are already uninhibited. This concept of suppression of inhibition is not in contradiction with excitation transfer. Zillmann (1996) indicated that the incremental effect of excitation transfer is bound to a maximum. If an emotional reaction is already reaching its full potential (under the given circumstances), then the transfer of an extra emotional reaction is not likely to add much. The arousal of the community subjects to the normative consensual stimuli in the Lalumiere et al. (2016) study is likely nearing the maximum, while their reactions to the violent sexual stimuli are likely to be suppressed. This gives the latter reaction greater potential to be elevated by the excitation transfer. This effect can be understood both in terms of reducing inhibition and in terms of excitation transfer increasing the arousal.
In addition to the mentioned studies, there is plenty of anecdotal evidence that a variety of emotions are often used to enhance sexual arousal. Playing with dominance, submissiveness, and even humiliation is arguably the most common way to achieve this, given the large variety of BDSM communities and online searches on this topic (Vasey & Abild, 2013) as well as the enormous success of books like Fifty Shades of Grey (James, 2011). So-called “angry sex” or “make up sex” is another well-known example of the introduction of another emotion to heighten sexual arousal. On the darker side of things, there are anecdotal accounts of sexual arousal and sexual activity among spectators at the Coliseum in ancient Rome (Mannix, 1958) as well as reports of sexual arousal among soldiers in combat (Blackwell, 2015). Furthermore, if we look at a list of known paraphilias (Milner, Dopke, & Crouch, 1997), it is clear that the vast majority of these unusual interests evoke a substantial emotional reaction in everybody, be it disgust, fear, shame, anger, and so forth; virtually no paraphilias are emotionally “neutral,” e.g., like sexual arousal to pillows. This seems consistent with (although of course not proof of) the suggestion that it takes an emotionally charged stimulus to transfer to sexual arousal.
The mechanism of enhanced sexual arousal through extra emotional arousal can be expected to work for everybody to a certain extent and it is our hypothesis that it is possible to induce excitation transfer and enhance sexual arousal to other emotional stimuli in a controlled laboratory setting, thus creating the beginnings of an unusual sexual interest. However, as mentioned before, for individuals who are closer to the maximum arousal, the added effect of transferred emotion is expected to be less (Zillmann, 1996). The transference effect in real life will therefore be much stronger for those individuals who lack a working alternative, that is, who are underaroused or overinhibited by nature. Transference effects may also be more applicable to situations where partners have known each other for a long time or for individuals who overuse their sexual system (see also “Interconnectedness of Sexual Self-Regulation Factors”). However, predispositionally underaroused/overinhibited individuals may become dependent on the extra emotions from the outset to achieve sufficient sexual arousal. They can grow to perceive these extra emotional stimuli as “conditio sine qua non” for sexual arousal and are more likely to pursue and cultivate these stimuli, even if they are considered illegal and/or morally wrong.
Incidentally, even if one specific stimulus is preferred, it is likely that more than one type of transferred emotion is able to achieve the desired result. Especially if an individual spends a lot of time searching for different sexual stimuli, he is likely to get acquainted with various forms of excitation transfer. This provides an explanation for the finding that unusual sexual interests often co-occur, whether measured by means of phallometric assessment (e.g., Heil, Ahlmeyer, & Simons, 2003), self-reported offense behaviors (e.g., Abel, Becker, Cunningham-Rathner, Mittelman, & Rouleau, 1988), or self-reported interests (e.g., Wilpert, 2018), and why paraphilias often coincide with sexual preoccupation (e.g., Kafka & Hennen, 2002).
Pedophilic Interest
It is beyond the scope and purpose of this article to theorize on all possible relationships between specific sexual interests and specific emotions. However, we do want to mention one possible specific relationship of importance: the relationship between pedophilia and the emotion we will call endearment. Endearment refers to the emotion induced by a stimulus that is considered “cute” (in Japan referred to as “kawaii”), for example, puppies and kittens. We know from research that this emotion is potentially strong, strong enough to influence behavior (Nittono, Fukushima, Yano, & Moriya, 2012), and even strong enough to elicited dimorphous expressions (Aragón, Clark, Dyer, & Bargh, 2015) such as aggression (“It’s so cute I want to squeeze it”). The visual stimuli in the IAPS (International Affective Picture System) that appeal to endearment, for example, pictures of puppies and kittens, receive the highest positive ratings among women and the second highest positive ratings among men, second only to stimuli with sexual content. For men who for some reason are overinhibited in their reaction to normal sexual stimuli, endearment may well be the next strongest positive emotion.
Strong feelings of endearment are often mentioned by pedophiles as an essential part of their interest in children. Sometimes this takes the extreme form of emotional congruence with children, an exaggerated affective and cognitive affiliation with children, that seems most prevalent among the most “prototypical” of pedophiles, the extra-familial child abusers with male victims (McPhail, Hermann, & Nunes, 2013). Self-reports on the development of their initial pedophilic interest more often than not start with endearment and gradually develop toward sexual interest through cuddling, romping, and so forth. Once the pedophilic interest is established though, the route toward sexual behavior seems to become more deliberate and explicit. Based on our model, we hypothesize that pedophilia stems from the transfer between endearment and sexual arousal. (Note that this by no means implies that we approve of sexual behavior with children in any way!) Assuming that it is endearment that developed incentive salience for these men, we hypothesize that viewing time measures that contrast adult stimuli with other “kawaii” stimuli (e.g., puppies and kittens) instead of child stimuli may also be able to distinguish pedophiles form nonpedophiles.
Experience and Predisposition
We have argued that sexual deviance may develop from excitation transfer, motivated by a lack of interest in normative sexual stimuli. We will now proceed to summarize what the literature suggests about possible mechanisms underlying low interest in sexual stimuli. First, research suggests that experience and learning contribute to the (lack of) incentive salience of sexual stimuli (e.g., Brom et al., 2014; Pfaus, 2009; Toates, 2009). Even though the automatic stages of the sexual motivation cycle take place outside the consciousness of the individual, they may well be influenced by personal and social learning processes that were internalized and automated at a younger age (Toates, 2009). Negative experiences of failure, rejection, childhood sexual abuse, and so forth, may contribute to sexual reticence and inhibition. Similarly, a lack of positive experiences may leave stimuli without much incentive salience (Laan & Janssen, 2007). These mechanisms may interfere with normative sexual behavior, but may, on the contrary, also play a role in the development of normative sexual behavior. Several authors have suggested (e.g., Lalumière, Quinsey, Harris, Rice, & Trautrimas, 2003) that normal men, in contrast to antisocial men, inhibit their sexual reaction to sexual stimuli if these stimuli simultaneously include violence, which can be seen as the result of a social learning process. Societal mores teach that some things are unacceptable and thus they become less enjoyable to those who are adequately socialized (e.g., Messenger, 1971). Learning to cope with sexual desire and shaping one’s sexuality is, like Marshall and Barbaree (1990) noted, a learning process.
Apart from the influence of experience, however, differences in neurobiology also underlie differences in capacity for sexual arousal and sexual (dis)inhibition. There is no comprehensive insight in the neurobiology underlying deviant sexual arousal (Georgiadis & Kringelbach, 2012), but below we will briefly discuss some examples for consideration. Taking stock of the existing evidence, however, is complicated because available research largely focuses on differences between sex offenders and nonsex-offenders, instead of focusing on differences related to sexual deviance specifically. Given that we assume that deviant sex offenders are quite different from “common” sex offenders with regard to their sexual functioning, results have to be interpreted with caution.
Testosterone plays a significant role in sensitizing brain and body to sexual incentives (Hermans et al., 2010). A recent meta-analysis (Wong & Gravel, 2018) finds no difference in testosterone levels between sex offenders and controls. However, the results of the studies included in the meta-analysis vary greatly and the authors notice that testosterone levels of child molesters (CM) might be lower than controls. Furthermore, the study including the most deviant CM, that is, those with phallometrically assessed preference for children (Bain et al., 1988), finds the lowest testosterone levels in these offenders. This suggests that low testosterone could be associated with sexual underarousal or reduced sexual sensitivity in deviant offenders. It may be worthwhile to revisit studies on this topic with carefully selected subjects and control groups based on sexual deviance specifically.
Serotonin is of great importance to inhibition in general (Dalley & Roiser, 2012) and to sexual inhibition specifically (Pfaus, 2009). In a review on premature ejaculation (De Jong, Veening, Waldinger, Cools, & Olivier, 2006), the authors connect serotonin receptors directly to the ejaculatory threshold and the ability to inhibit or disinhibit orgasm. The finding that pedophilic offenders are also characterized by serotonergic receptor disturbance (Maes et al., 2001) has hitherto been interpreted as a sign of their tendency to disinhibit impulsive aggression (Kafka, 2003). However, it is an interesting question for future research whether serotonergic disturbance in pedophiles can be related to their sexual functioning.
Brain structures of (small) groups of pedophilic offenders have been extensively compared with various control groups (Tenbergen et al., 2015), and these studies produce varying differences in both frontal and temporal-limbic brain regions. However, studies including larger groups (Cantor & Blanchard, 2012; Cantor et al., 2008) find no differences in gray brain matter but rather reduced white matter in pedophilic offenders, suggesting reduced connectivity between the various parts of the brain involved in sexual behavior. Reduced connectivity is of course not equivalent to reduced sexual functioning or underarousal, but these findings seem worthy of further investigation. Future research should preferably include nonoffenders with unusual sexual interests to assess if their brain structures show similar deviations.
Direct comparisons between sexually deviant groups and men with (nonorganic) sexual dysfunctions provide an interesting line of research that has rarely been pursued. An older study (Gurnani & Dwyer, 1986) compares nonviolent sex offenders to men with (nonorganic) erectile dysfunction with regard to their testosterone levels. The authors conclude that low testosterone can both be seen as “a possible indicator of hyposexuality” and an indicator of “possible concurrent offending behavior” (p. 39); however, these results remain unreplicated.
Taking into account the very limited available evidence, we hypothesize that neurobiological differences can make the development of normative sexual behavior more of a challenge for some individuals and may even, in extreme forms, lead individuals almost inevitably toward the development of sexual deviance. Such underlying neurobiological anomalies would allow for sexual deviance to occur in the absence of negative sexual or life experiences, which is in accordance with reports of many self-identified pedophiles (Shields & Ruzicka, 2016). Though we argue that neurobiological traits may predispose an individual for the development of deviant sexual interests, this relationship is expected to be neither exclusive nor specific. For example, it is imaginable that a person who is sexually underaroused/overinhibited will nevertheless focus on normative stimuli and may present with a sexual dysfunction or low sexual interest or may develop an asexual orientation, characterized by a lack of sexual attraction to any group of stimuli. There is very little research on the topic of asexuality, but two studies that assessed correlates/biological markers of asexuality in men found that non-right-handedness, a higher number of older brothers and sisters (Yule, Brotto, & Gorzalka, 2014), lower socioeconomic status (SES), and lower education (Bogaert, 2004) were related to asexuality. This shows remarkable similarities with markers for pedophilia (Cantor et al., 2004) and seems worthy of further investigation.
Sexual Coping: A Two-Way Street
The IMM suggests that sexual arousal is an emotion that can influence other emotions as well as be influenced by other emotions. The fact that other emotions can be influenced by sex has been widely recognized by the sex offender field for quite some time. The Relapse Prevention Model (e.g., Pithers, 1990; Pithers, Marques, Gibat, & Marlatt, 1983) assumes that high-risk situations, which form the first step in the sex offender relapse sequence, most frequently consist of negative emotional states that trigger sexual fantasies and (offending) behavior as a consoling mechanism. Proulx, McKibben, and Lusignan (1996) find that the frequency of masturbation to deviant sexual fantasy is indeed significantly associated with negative moods in sex offenders. More recently the more general idea of “sexual coping” was introduced (Cortoni & Marshall, 2001), referring to the predominant tendency to use sexual gratification (often masturbation) to relieve negative emotions of sadness, anger, frustration, and so forth. The nature of the relevant sexual fantasies or conduct in sexual coping is not necessarily deviant (see Figure 2). This sexual coping tendency is present in a substantial part of sex offenders and is regarded as an important risk factor for sexual reoffending (e.g., Stable-2007; Hanson et al., 2007). At its core, the suggested IMM poses the assumption that the connection between sexual self-regulation and emotional self-regulation is a two-way street. A person can regulate their emotional states by means of sexual activity (sexual coping) as well as regulate their sexual arousal by means of other emotions (deviant arousal).

A schematic representation of self-regulation by means of sexual behavior.
Drawing further on this reciprocal connection between sexual arousal and other types of emotional arousal, it can be hypothesized that sexual coping will not solely be used to down-regulate high negative emotional arousal but may also serve to up-regulate positive emotional arousal (see Figure 2). We argue that this mechanism underlies a wide variety of fetishisms. Fetishists often use simmering, low-level sexual arousal to achieve an enduring comfortable arousal level. In this case sexual gratification is not the goal, but the sexual arousal itself is. Or, to be more accurate, the general positive arousal is the goal and is achieved by sexual arousal. The resulting emotional state may be so subtle that it is not clearly experienced or recognized as sexual arousal by the individual, who sometimes emphasizes that their fetish “is not sexual” it just makes them “feel good,” even if their fetish appears to be obviously sexual in nature (i.e., female masking: http://www.channel4.com/programs/secrets-of-the-living-dolls).
This mechanism of emotional up-regulation by means of (subtle) sexual arousal is consistent with the extensive comorbidity of paraphilias with Axis I mood disorders (e.g., Kafka & Hennen, 2002), although these disorders could also develop as a consequence of the deviant sexual desires and behaviors. The reported comorbidity between paraphilia and attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD; Kafka & Hennen, 2002) is however not as easily explained as a consequence. This correlation is consistent with the suggestion that people with ADHD suffer from low general arousal levels and tend to look for more stimuli to achieve higher and more pleasant levels of arousal (Sergeant, Oosterlaan, & van der Meere, 1999). Stimulants that increase the levels of dopamine are known to ameliorate the symptoms of ADHD (Faraone & Buitelaar, 2010). We hypothesize that some individuals achieve this increase in dopamine and heightened general arousal by means of sexual arousal.
The differentiation of motivations behind the use of sexual coping has not yet been the topic of empirical research. Future research may include assessment of parameters of sexual coping behaviors, for instance, time spent on sexual behavior versus sexual outlet. We hypothesize that among individuals who (predominantly) use sexual coping for down-regulation (SC-DR), time spent on sexual behavior will be paralleled by sexual outlet. In individuals who (predominantly) use sexual coping for up-regulation (SC-UR), time spent on sexual behavior will not be paralleled by sexual outlet.
Interconnectedness of Sexual Self-Regulation Factors
Various sexual regulation problems have been discussed separately; however, based on the model it is clear to see how they may be interrelated in various ways. Though some people may predominantly use sexual coping to down-regulate and others to up-regulate, clinical observation suggests that both types of sexual self-regulation sometimes co-occur, resulting in a comprehensive form of sexual self-regulation, infiltrating all aspects of life and taking up considerable amounts of time. We also expect an association between SC-UR and sexual deviance, because, as described in the “Sexual Coping: A Two-Way Street” section, we hypothesize that SC-UR will often involve forms of fetishism. Because SC-UR has not been researched as such, future research will have to shed light on this topic.
SC-DR becomes problematic if it is an individual’s only coping mechanism and particularly so at times when the individual experiences a lot of stress to cope with. A persistent focus on sexual behavior, as a result of sexual coping or otherwise, may lead to incentive sensitization (Berridge & Robinson, 1995; Berridge & Robinson, 2016). Mesolimbic dopamine sensitization renders “wanting” systems hyperreactive to sexual cues and contexts, leading to an increased urge to act (wanting) not matched by a corresponding degree of positive appreciation of the stimulus or even the expected outcome (liking). This mechanism of “empty wanting” posits the essence of addiction and has been described in many forms of addictive behavior (Berridge & Robinson, 2016) including compulsive sexual behavior (CSB; Voon et al., 2014). Based on an IMM, we further hypothesize that while CSB will result in increased sexual activity/outlet and want for sexual activity, at the same time, it will likely lead to decreased sexual arousal and sexual satisfaction, due to the lag in liking. The literature provides some results consistent with this hypothesis (Janssen, Hoffmann, Goodrich, & Wilson, 2016; Laier, Pawlikowski, Pekal, Schulte, & Brand, 2013; Miner et al., 2015; Winters, Christoff, & Gorzalka, 2010), but more and more specific research on this topic is needed.
CSB, either motivated by sexual coping or not, does not necessarily involve sexual deviance, because individuals may have relatively normal functioning sexual systems and may search for adequate normative stimuli to serve their purposes. However, the lag in liking associated with compulsive behavior, will eventually call for stronger, possibly deviant stimuli. Moreover, spending an extraordinary amount of time looking for sexual stimuli online or in real life increases the chance to come into contact with deviant stimuli and gaining (more) gratifying experiences with these stimuli. Severe overuse of the sexual system may also lead to the use of deviant stimuli through satiation: Orgasm renders the sexual system less sensitive for a period of time (Georgiadis & Kringelbach, 2012), among other things by means of increased serotonin levels (Hull et al., 1999). If the individual “wants to want” to return to sexual activity within that time frame, for example, because the previous outcome did not meet their expectations, then stronger stimuli are needed to counter these satiety effects. Deviant stimuli may provide this extra arousal and using those stimuli to reach gratification will stimulate the process of their conditioning. If the deviant stimuli become sufficiently conditioned, they become part of the collection of stimuli that may independently trigger a sexual reaction. Existing evidence indeed points toward substantial comorbidity between sexual deviance and CSB (e.g., Kafka & Hennen, 1999); however, this provides little evidence for the proposed mechanism. A more specific hypothesis we can derive from our IMM is that sexual deviance may develop as a secondary condition to CSB and/or sexual coping. This means that successfully countering CSB or sexual coping may remedy sexual deviance while leaving normative sexuality intact. Consistent with this hypothesis, a review of the literature suggests that Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors (SSRIs) may be successful in treating sexual deviance without interfering with normative sexuality, but this effect appears to be “more effective in paraphilias that resemble or are accompanied by OCD symptoms” (Garcia & Thibaut, 2011, p. 777).
Summarizing, considerable overlap between sexual regulation factors is expected, yet it remains important to distinguish them from each other. Future research should aim to assess not only the nature of problematic sexual behaviors but also their function and their history of origin.
Summary and Conclusions
This article applies an incentive model of sexual motivation to sexual offending behavior. Most importantly, the proposed IMM describes sexual offending behavior as a variant of sexual behavior rather than a variant of offending behavior. Furthermore, the model describes sexual arousal as an emotional reaction to a competent stimulus, comparable to other emotions. Emotions can interact with each other. The interaction between the sexual emotion and other emotions can, consciously or automatically, serve as a means of emotional or sexual self-regulation. Not only can sex be used to reduce negative emotional states (i.e., sexual coping), but sexual arousal can also be used to increase positive emotional states or to achieve a desired level of general arousal (e.g., fetishism). Furthermore, other emotions can consciously or unconsciously be used to regulate sexual arousal (i.e., sexual deviance). These added emotions can be experienced as the actual cause of the arousal and may become a necessary condition for arousal or even independently trigger sexual arousal as a consequence of conditioning.
It is our belief that this IMM of sexual offending and sexual deviance is internally coherent and provides an innovative addition to the existing literature that increases the scope as well as the depth of our current understanding of sexual offending behavior and sexual deviance. Furthermore, the proposed model brings together many aspects from existing theories, evolutionary, neurobiological, and psychological; clinical and empirical; forensic and sexological. Comparable to evolutionary psychology, the IMM describes sexual offending as sexually motivated behavior, but more than the evolutionary perspective, it incorporates individual flexibility and idiosyncrasy. The resulting model specifically provides more plausible explanations and hypotheses on the development of deviant preferences that serve no apparent reproductive purpose. Furthermore, in hypothesizing about causal intrapersonal mechanisms, the model allows for new avenues of inquiry and provides many testable hypotheses. Because the underlying mechanisms are assumed to be similar, many of these hypotheses can first be tested among subjects other than sex offenders using other outcome measures than sexual reoffending. This circumvents some of the research problems typical of our field. Research should aim to cover all stages of the sexual motivation cycle and preferably include, besides the specific subgroup of deviant sex offenders, comparison groups of normal subjects, men with unusual but legal preferences, and men with (nonorganic) sexual dysfunctions.
Although the model provides some predictive accuracy in the form of explanations for findings in existing research, there is no actual empirical evidence available yet and subsequent empirical studies will have to rigorously test whether the model has real empirical adequacy. A weak point of the model is that it remains relatively complicated. However, we do not believe this is a consequence of making many or far-reaching assumptions but is rather due to the inclusion of phenomena like circularity, reciprocity, and multicausality. This may well be indicative of the fact that the problem the model is trying to describe is known as complex and multifaceted and must not be oversimplified.
Footnotes
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